Rita Odafe
Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo
Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, head of David’s Christian Centre, encourages women to ask important questions before entering into a relationship.
He emphasizes the need for women to clarify the direction of their relationships to avoid wasting their time.
His advice is for women to focus on seeking marriage rather than casual dating to ensure they spend their time wisely.
During a church sermon, he mentioned:
‘’It’s crucial for women to ask the right questions, especially when they are not emotionally involved. Once they fall in love, they often forget what to inquire about. Understanding the nature of the relationship is essential.”
He noted that many women hesitate to define their relationships, which can lead to confusion. Clarity about intentions is vital. He urges women to aim for marriage rather than just dating.
Some may wonder if dating is necessary before marriage. He insists that dating should have a purpose and a clear goal. Dating aimlessly leads to heartbreak. Often, women blame men for heartache; however, he argues that it’s a mutual decision. If a man expresses his intention to date and a woman agrees, the outcome is predictable.
He concluded with a warning: “Avoid engaging in unending relationships.”
