Rita Odafe
Nollywood actress Damilola Adegbite recently reached out to her audience with an important message.
After celebrating her 40th birthday, she took to Instagram to express that no one owes them anything.
As the actress reflected on her milestone, she felt the need to communicate a significant life lesson — one she believes could help others avoid feelings of heartbreak, letdowns, and unfulfilled hopes.
In a video posted after an event, Damilola shared her insight following a meaningful discussion with a friend, realizing the importance of the message she wanted to convey to those who might find it helpful.
She stated that understanding that no one is obligated to meet your needs is incredibly liberating.
“At times, those you supported may not reciprocate. Your hard work might go unnoticed. That apology you’re anticipating could never arrive,” she remarked.
She pointed out that many assume good outcomes will come their way simply due to their efforts, but life doesn’t always operate on that principle.
Damilola noted that people give love and support not out of duty, but out of genuine choice.
“When someone shows you affection or concern, it’s not something you’re owed. They’re choosing to show they care,” she continued.
The actress urged her followers to refrain from feeling disappointed if others do not behave as expected. Instead, she encouraged them to adapt, take note, and keep progressing.
She concluded her video by highlighting the importance of safeguarding one’s tranquility:
“Your peace is your strength. Don’t let it slip away just because someone couldn’t rise to your level.”
Her message has generated discussions online, with many resonating with her insights and expressing gratitude for her words.
Catch the video below…
