Kaylah Walton
The tragic news regarding Aubrey Plaza’s husband, filmmaker Jeff Baena, has stunned both fans and colleagues. After marrying Plaza in 2021 following a decade-long relationship, Baena reportedly took his life at their home in Los Angeles, as reported by TMZ. While many have shared supportive messages, others have reacted poorly, making insensitive comments online.
In the wake of this tragedy, Plaza’s recent Instagram update—a holiday card featuring the phrase “Merry Witchmas and Haggy Holidays“—has turned into a space for remembrance. Supporters filled the comments with heartfelt messages like, “Wishing you strength in this tough time,” and “You are in my prayers.”
However, some darker reactions surfaced as individuals made inappropriate jokes about Plaza being single again. One viral tweet criticized these comments, stating, “People who joke that ‘Aubrey Plaza is single again’ are just plain unfunny.” Another tweet highlighted the absence of empathy in such remarks, stating, “Zero empathy. And I’m expected to care about a male loneliness crisis? Please.”
A love story kept private
Plaza and Baena, who maintained a private relationship, began dating in 2011. In a 2021 interview, Plaza shared humorous anecdotes about their small backyard wedding, offering insight into their close relationship. The couple also worked together on films such as Life After Beth and Spin Me Round, blending their professional and personal lives.
Baena’s death has led to an outpouring of tributes, with many recalling his impact on independent film and his modest presence in Hollywood. His final project, Spin Me Round (2022), was a significant achievement, marking his role as both director and collaborator with Plaza.
A call for compassion in times of grief
As social media continues to highlight both support and insensitivity, many fans urge a compassionate approach in the current circumstances. Plaza has yet to make a public statement about this tragedy and is undoubtedly experiencing significant sorrow.
This ongoing dialogue emphasizes the importance of thoughtful engagement online. In moments of loss, empathy and respect should prevail over crude humor and judgment.
