Despite efforts to portray an amicable co-parenting relationship, Usher and Tameka Foster seem to still harbor underlying tensions. Their past tumultuous split in 2009, followed by a fierce custody battle for their kids, paints a different picture from their current public image. Usher’s recent speech at the 2024 BET Awards hinted at unresolved issues, suggesting ongoing struggles in their dynamic, even prompting comments from a renowned celebrity relationship expert.
During his acceptance speech for the Lifetime Achievement Award, Usher publicly acknowledged his commitment to improving his co-parenting efforts, particularly with Foster. While Foster has outwardly expressed positivity about their relationship, Usher’s words implied a different narrative as he referenced striving to emulate successful co-parenting examples like Alicia Keys, Swizz Beatz, and Mashonda Tifre. His direct address to Foster, stating, “I’m trying, Tameka,” raised eyebrows among fans, hinting at underlying discord.
While some perceived this as airing private matters in public, celebrity matchmaker Susan Trombetti noted that Usher’s statement could be perceived as a step towards amending their relationship and fostering a healthier co-parenting bond.