Kaylah Walton
Jennifer Lopez’s decision to file for divorce from Ben Affleck may not have come as a shock to many, given the ongoing speculations about their relationship.
Despite living separately for quite some time, sources close to the singer and actress disclosed that Lopez made genuine attempts to salvage the marriage.
A close friend of Lopez revealed that despite her efforts, the relationship was destined to fail from the beginning.
The friend emphasized Lopez’s enduring love for Affleck, stating that she struggled because of this deep affection. However, it was noted that Affleck had an underlying darkness that no one could remedy.
Affleck’s absence at Lopez’s birthday celebration in the Hamptons and his presence at another venue depicted the rift in their relationship.
Upon what would have been their second anniversary, Lopez filed for divorce, acknowledging the dissolution of what she believed was her ideal love story.
According to a Hollywood insider, Lopez’s perception of a fairy-tale romance clashed with the reality of who Affleck was in their relationship.
Challenges with Affleck’s Darkness
Affleck’s past relationships have also encountered difficulties due to his complex nature. Jennifer Garner, his ex-wife, once described him as a mixture of brightness and shadow, depending on his emotional state.
A source disclosed that although Affleck prioritizes his children and self-care, he struggles to fully commit to another person.
Despite Lopez’s unwavering belief in love’s power, Affleck’s independent demeanor played a significant role in the marriage’s breakdown.
Lopez, often criticized for her public affection and storytelling through her work, will soon promote her new film “Unstoppable” at the Toronto International Film Festival, where Affleck, a producer of the movie, will be absent.
As Lopez navigates the aftermath, a Hollywood insider expressed sympathy for her efforts, acknowledging her dedication not only to Ben but also to his children. However, the insider remarked on the unchanging nature of people and Affleck’s inability to pretend otherwise.
