Kaylah Walton
Jennifer Lopez is working to keep a friendly relationship with her ex-husband, Ben Affleck, making an effort to see him frequently during the holiday season and afterwards. Concurrently, Affleck’s previous spouse, Jennifer Garner, seems to be hoping for his attention as well.
As reported by a source to In Touch, this behind-the-scenes scenario has evolved into a subtle yet evident rivalry.
The insider indicates that Affleck’s family dynamic introduces complexities, as he navigates the expectations of two separate households. The source claims Affleck feels “pulled in different directions.”
“J. Lo encourages him to dedicate more time to her as they navigate their new blended family, emphasizing the need for a strong foundation post-divorce,” the insider revealed. “Simultaneously, Jen is urging him to prioritize their time together with the kids.”
Family pressures amplify during the holidays
As Affleck strives to balance his time between his kids and ex-partners, the close relationships among the children contribute to the challenge. A separate insider shared that despite the divorce, the five kids remain tightly connected.
“Their bond is strong, and they continue to spend time together regularly,” noted the source. “They refuse to let the divorce impact their relationship.”
Nonetheless, Affleck has his own views on holiday celebrations. While he values his children’s connections, he doesn’t think it’s essential for everyone to celebrate together.
“He truly appreciates the closeness between his kids and is dedicated to nurturing that. However, he believes this doesn’t require all of them to share the holidays,” explained the source.
Interestingly, Affleck reportedly finds comfort in his time spent with Garner. Their shared history and ease make it simpler for him.
“In reality, being with Jen and their children feels much more natural than managing a blended family scenario. He feels relaxed around her; there’s no pressure, allowing him to truly be himself,” the insider elaborated.
