Selena Gomez expressed her frustration over constantly trying to meet others’ expectations. In a recent video posted on her X account, she embraced her vulnerability following hurtful comments about her health struggles, particularly regarding her inability to have children due to serious medical issues.
At a ‘Women in Film’ event, she firmly told anyone who sees her as a victim because of her condition to “f*ck off.”
Selena emphasized that there is no shame in asking for help when needed.
Additionally, she offered encouragement to her sister, Gracie, and the event audience, reminding them to never let anyone undermine their goodness.
Selena Gomez’s Motherhood Journey
Earlier this month, the former Disney star shared with Vanity Fair that she sees adoption or surrogacy as significant options to become a mother.
“I have numerous health issues that could jeopardize both my life and the baby’s,” she explained in the cover story. “It’s something I had to process emotionally. It hasn’t gone as I envisioned; I thought it would unfold like it does for most people,” Selena reflected.
Despite these challenges, she has come to a level of acceptance regarding her health situation.
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She has expressed gratitude for the joy she feels as a woman since beginning her relationship with producer Benny Blanco. She shared her eagerness for motherhood, noting, “I’m really thankful for the other avenues for those eager to become moms. I’m among them, and I’m looking forward to this unique journey.”
In addition, she discussed her challenges with lupus, an autoimmune condition, and her mental health, specifically mentioning her bipolar disorder diagnosis from 2020. She reflected on how the diagnosis brought her relief, stating it felt like a substantial burden had been lifted.
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