When I randomly look by means of articles I have written on divorce or learn by means of feedback on social media posts of these similar articles, there’s at all times not less than one or two “shamers” trolling the items. Usually these shamers quote biblical accounts or speak about how these folks should be weak or terrible, horrible dad and mom (if divorced with youngsters) or quitters. How again within the day, “people stayed married.” It’s humorous. These random strangers appear to assume they know every little thing about a full stranger’s divorce and life from one article. The ones who quote faith are performing as a “god” of kinds, passing judgments on folks they’ve by no means met and by no means will.
You, the divorced or the individual about to get divorced may additionally get shamers out of your group. Family. Friends. Neighbors. Acquaintances. “Another one bites the dust. Another one quits.” You can see it on their faces, hear it of their phrases.
Well, as somebody three years out and completely satisfied, I can let you know: pay these shamers no thoughts.
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