Rita Odafe
Simi
Nigerian artist Simi recently shared that while she has experienced emotional hurt, she has never truly gone through heartbreak.
In a discussion with VJ Adams, Simi revealed her ability to detach from negative situations, which has helped her avoid heartbreak.
The singer, who is also a mother, mentioned that she has been in situations where she has hurt someone else’s feelings.
She emphasized the importance of her mental health, stating that she is willing to sever connections that cause her distress or discomfort.
“I don’t think I’ve ever been heartbroken, but I’ve been hurt before. I don’t have any memory of being heartbroken, but I’ve probably broken someone’s heart,” she explained.
Simi noted that everyone has the capacity to cause pain to others, but she ensures her own safety by avoiding detrimental environments.
“I’ve always said I don’t want someone in my life out of pity. I’d rather feel the pain myself and move on. If something isn’t working for me, I’ll leave it behind,” she added.
She highlighted that her strategy isn’t just for romantic relationships; it extends to friendships and other types of connections.
Simi concluded: “This approach isn’t exclusive to love. If I have friends who make me uncomfortable, I won’t hesitate to remove them from my life because it impacts my anxiety.”
