Overcoming To Becoming. – My Story

Growing up, I had always been told that girls only take the money from their parents but never look back to taking care of them. I always wondered if it was true. I got married at the very early age of 22. I had always been a quiet girl, but with a loving heart and I wanted to have a huge family. I found a husband but as we grew older things changed. I have been judged, accused, and blamed over and over again to the point where I was broken down emotionally. I was not able to make anyone understand what I felt, I would just keep on smiling and just focused on taking care of what was necessary which was my family. Whenever I needed a friend to talk to, I felt judged to the point where I felt that opening my mouth was wrong. I lost my self-confidence, my belief, my faith, and my trust.

One thing I never gave up on was reading, because I have learned that to cut down the negative in life I had to keep adding positive things in my life. Sometimes reading did not help me right away but I knew it was working internally. The Secret book is one of my favorite books that I have on my phone and next to my pillow. I am a firm believer in the saying, “There is light at the end of the tunnel.” How long the tunnel is no one knows, but yes, there is always light at the end of it. My tunnel was filled with judgments, accusations, and blaming.  I have not overcome it completely yet but I know that I will overcome all of it soon to become the best version of myself.

One of the biggest lessons I have learned is to never judge anyone without knowing the real story. I have also learned to always encourage and pour positive things into people to build them up. Thank you, thank you, thank you.