Sophia Michaels
Indeed the love between the Alaafin of Oyo HIM Oba Lamidi Olayiwola Adeyemi (82) and his first wife Ayaba Abibat Nihinlola Adeyemi (81), is super strong as they have remained strong as husband and wife after over 60 years of marriage.
You see, IyaAdodo, as she is fondly called, is not just a wife but the pillar behind Alaafin Adeyemi.
As the first wife, she has many traditional roles she plays in the palace. Not only that, City People reports that Ayaba Abibat has been described by many as a woman with a large heart and quality characters. She is loving, warm and accommodating.
So enormous are her responsibilities as the first wife that AyabaAbibat is said to have encouraged Alaafin to marry another wife, and today Alaafin has over 10 wives.
Alaafin, reportedly met and married AyabaAbibat when she was in secondary school, at the age of 17. Their meeting was said to be through Alaafin’s late younger sister who was attending the same school with Ayaba sometimes in 1956. That was before Alaafin ascended the throne of his forefathers in 1970.
She was later to follow Alaafin to Lagos where he was working with an insurance company. AyabaAbibat learned the trade of sewing thereafter and became a trained tailor.
They both lived in Lagos and in fact, had three children, out of which Princess Folashade Adeyemi is the family third before AlaafinAdeyemi became king.
They later had an additional two children, making it five children that their marriage produced. They have five children together, three girls and two boys. All of the children are grown and highly successful. They are also blessed with many grandchildren.
Ayaba Abibat in her hay days is said to be resourceful and fashionable. Having studied and understood royalty. She knows what it means to be an Ayaba (Oloori) not just to an ordinary Oba but a well-respected king in Yorubaland.
Even up till now and despite her age, Ayaba Abibat Nihinlola still carries herself with so much respect and dignity befitting of her status. She is well-loved and respected among other wives. She is a role model for many and a perfect example of what a virtuous woman should be.
