Sophia Michaels
Fans of “The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills” were taken aback when Teddi Mellencamp announced her divorce from Edwin Arroyave on November 2, 2024, after 13 years of marriage. She explained her decision to file for divorce, stating, “Making a public statement is not something I wanted to do but in an effort to protect my family from undue speculation and rumors, I felt being open, honest, and vulnerable was the best path forward.”
This announcement was unexpected, particularly since just days earlier, Arroyave publicly praised Mellencamp at a gala, describing her strength during challenging times. This led fans to question how their seemingly happy marriage could deteriorate so suddenly. Nevertheless, there were indications of issues between the couple throughout their relationship.
A rocky start: Teddi Mellencamp viewed Edwin Arroyave as a fling
Teddi Mellencamp and Edwin Arroyave’s relationship began under unlikely circumstances. In Season 8 of “The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills,” Mellencamp candidly shared that their initial meeting was not romantic; it was a one-night stand. She humorously recounted her confusion over his name, mistakenly calling him Edward instead of Edwin.
Reflecting on their unconventional start, she expressed concern about how to explain their beginning to their children, emphasizing the unpredictability of life. Despite their surprising origin, Mellencamp initially believed theirs could be a happily-ever-after story, which sadly did not come to fruition.
Edwin Arroyave hesitant about marriage
The journey towards marriage was not smooth for Mellencamp and Arroyave. In an interview, Mellencamp disclosed that they took their time before tying the knot, and it took years before she met Arroyave’s daughter from a previous relationship. However, tension arose when she discovered he had reservations about marriage. During an emotional moment, Arroyave expressed his love for her while revealing his reluctance to take that step again.
Despite his initial fears, they eventually wed on July 4, 2011. On their 13th anniversary, Mellencamp posted a heartfelt tribute to Arroyave, only for fans to later express sadness upon hearing about the divorce filing, highlighting how their marriage seemed strong despite its later troubles.
Previous discussions of divorce between Teddi Mellencamp and Edwin Arroyave
When Teddi Mellencamp and Edwin Arroyave debuted in Season 8 of “Real Housewives of Beverly Hills,” they appeared to have a flawless relationship. However, behind the scenes, their marriage faced significant challenges. During an episode of “Two Ts in a Pod,” Arroyave disclosed that they were on the verge of splitting during that season, saying, “We were ready to… we were done.” Mellencamp agreed, revealing she was contemplating how to share their problems with her castmates while filming. Although she didn’t delve into the specifics, she mentioned, “For us, it was really about a power struggle and we were always kind of equals,” indicating that Edwin’s control over finances created tension.
In October, Mellencamp reflected on her experiences during “Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen.” She noted the emotional toll watching friend Kyle Richards argue with her husband stirred within her, revealing, “As her friend, it was hard because I hid something with Edwin, and I was 99% sure our marriage wouldn’t last.”
Hints of Infidelity in Teddi Mellencamp’s Marriage
Mellencamp has consistently voiced her marriage struggles, and in October 2023, she suggested a deep-seated betrayal that challenged her forgiveness. “For years, I held so much resentment towards Edwin that I couldn’t even face him,” she stated on “Two Ts in a Pod.” When asked about potential infidelity, she hinted at it but avoided specifics, mentioning, “You become more guarded when your family is at stake.”
Allegations suggest that Arroyave may have cheated during their marriage. Sources revealed to Page Six that he reportedly had an affair with a woman named Missy, who was allegedly Mellencamp’s friend. This infidelity was said to have surfaced just before filming, leading to speculation that Edwin wanted to end their marriage once exposed, though Mellencamp wished to repair their relationship. While these claims remain unverified, they could provide insight into their marital turmoil.
Teddi Mellencamp’s Past Thoughts on Infidelity
Before marrying Edwin Arroyave, Teddi Mellencamp was previously wed to Matthew Robertson, with a less-than-ideal ending. On a December 2023 episode of “Two Ts in a Pod,” she shared with co-host Tamra Judge about her feelings during that marriage. “At one point, I’d go out for drinks and think, ‘I don’t want to go home to my husband, which isn’t good,'” Mellencamp explained. She recognized the need for honesty, saying, “This isn’t a good sign. We either need to divorce, or I’m likely going to cheat.”
It seems Teddi’s past feelings might have resurfaced in her marriage to Arroyave. Reports by Daily Mail suggest that she allegedly had a prolonged affair with horse trainer Simon Schröeder. Sources claimed they were together during the birth of Schröeder’s second child. Insiders revealed that after an investigation, Schröeder’s spouse discovered messages indicating the affair, prompting confessions from both parties. Though Mellencamp assured it wouldn’t happen again, this alleged affair seemingly triggered her decision to file for divorce, indicating that the drama continues.
