Abroad-based man dumps ‘forming hard-to-get’ bride after deceitfully ‘doing small thing on her head’ just to sleep with her

A man residing overseas is being accused of deliberately proceeding with a traditional wedding in order to harm his partner, only to later request a refund of the bride price.

The cousin of the heartbroken bride, identified as @DrChiemeziem on X, disclosed that the man physically assaulted his cousin before terminating their relationship.

According to the cousin, the man fulfilled all the necessary requirements for the traditional marriage and organized an extravagant ceremony

However, it was later revealed that his true intention was to engage in a physical relationship with the bride, as she had initially rejected his advances.

Furthermore, he insisted on receiving a reimbursement for the bride price he had paid before returning to his residence abroad.

In his words;

“There was this abroad guy that came back, did introduction and traditional marriage (with live band, buffet kitchen, canopy and all that) just to chop my hard-to-get cousin. My cousin nearly ran mad that year. Very beautiful girl wey no get wahala o. “After two weeks, he beat her up over a disagreement, told her he only did trad just to fucck her since she was forming hard to get when he was asking her out. Told her people he wasn’t interested in the marriage anymore, that he wanted the bride price back. Left her and traveled.”

Reactions as abroad-based man jilts bride for forming hard-to-get

phychem11 wrote: “Na why dem dey put some people for inside bottle be this o. What kind of evil is this nah?”

maureenndik wrote: “Yeah. Men do this. I would often post on my Facebook that all I’m saying is No, it’s not a competition. I’m not playing hard to get. I just don’t find you attractive. Please and sorry. I hate being used or using anyone, I just want an intense attraction and peaceful love.”

_weyi∫mi penned: “This thing can break a woman and bring out the very worse in her. I’m just angry thinking about it.”

HWYisKING stated: “Your fellow man do your cousin dis kind trash and you still get mind dey narrate…you and the men in your umunna should throw yourselves away into the gutter. Una dey useless to una women.”