Rumer Willis: The Emotional Journey That Almost Led Her to Stay with Her Baby’s Father

In August 2024, Rumer Willis shared that she and her former partner, Derek Richard Thomas, had ended their relationship, despite nearly choosing to stay together. In an Instagram Q&A, she confirmed, “Nope I am single momming it and co-parenting,” when asked about her relationship status after the couple welcomed their daughter, Louetta, in April 2023, shortly following their public relationship announcement in November 2022. While expressing gratitude for her time with Thomas, she also admitted the breakup had been tough.

During her appearance on the “Glamour & Grit Podcast” on October 21, 2024, Willis discussed her decision-making process that led to the breakup, acknowledging that while there was still love, she believed it would be healthier for herself and Louetta to seek out new romantic experiences. Nevertheless, navigating single motherhood brought its own set of challenges. After the split, Rumer relied on her parents, Demi Moore and Bruce Willis, for support. A source noted that she was processing her emotions and finding strength in her family’s support system.

Despite their breakup, Rumer and Derek have maintained a strong friendship and effective co-parenting dynamic. At the premiere of her film “Trail of Vengeance” on October 18, she expressed that their co-parenting bond is “unbelievable” and that he remains her best friend.

Rumer credited her parents’ enduring friendship post-divorce as a significant influence on her relationship with Derek. She stated that witnessing her parents’ mutual support helped her understand the importance of prioritizing their child’s well-being in their co-parenting approach. She reflected, “I never had to split a holiday,” showcasing the cohesive environment they created for family occasions.

Rumer’s commitment to effective co-parenting was apparent when paparazzi captured her and Thomas taking Louetta for a stroll shortly after their separation was made public. This public display highlighted their ability to prioritize their daughter, even as Rumer began exploring new romantic interests.