Healing From A Painful Breakup. – My Story

Firstly, thank you to Rhonda for your amazing books, The Secret, The Power, and The Magic. Thank you to all the people who submitted your stories here. This site is like a family to me. To everyone who is reading my story, lots of love to you from me!

Recently I suffered from a really painful breakup. He was my best friend from school. We both got in contact again after 10 years and started off as friends but ended up having feelings for each other. To make the story more interesting, we both had feelings since we were in school together but later moved on and forgot.

Well, maybe fate didn’t finish our story back then. We got in touch recently, became good friends again, and reopened the once-finished chapter, only to realize we both wanted different things in life and were not the right people for each other. He wanted a simple life whereas I am way too ambitious and have so many dreams for my life. Having strong feelings for someone knowing that the relationship would not have a beautiful ending is very much like welcoming hell with rose petals. I knew I had to let him go and end our friendship or whatever, but I simply couldn’t. We both were too emotional to let each other go and move on. So we always ended up being hurt, feeling helpless, hopeless, and in pain.

One day I couldn’t take this heartbreaking, gut-wrenching, ripping, killing pain and decided to take the help of the Universe. I needed to forgive myself and stop feeling guilty first, as I love loading myself with guilt and blame. I used a healing method called Ho’oponopono and Neville’s revision technique. I started practicing The Magic principles and tried to divert myself. I stopped calling him and deleted all my social media as I wanted to heal myself completely and focus on my other goals. I started doing yoga every day so that I needed to shift my energy into something useful and it helped divert my mind. I started reading fiction and that helped my thoughts divert in reading those stories. I used to chant the Vishnu Sahasranama Stotra, a powerful Sanskrit Stotra in Hinduism, every night to heal myself.

Needless to say, all these things helped me heal completely and it happened within 2 weeks. I am completely guilt-free now and I am so happy that I don’t even remember the pain I once suffered. I now bless him to have an amazing life and a lifetime of happiness.

To everyone out there, if you are the one who broke someone’s heart for genuine reasons, please don’t blame yourself. You will save yourself and them from undergoing so much pain later. Instead, forgive yourself first and then wish for their happiness. Karma doesn’t harm you if you wish the best for others wholeheartedly. And to those whose hearts have been broken, let them go. You deserve the best. Work on self-love and your goals. I suggest you affirm healing phrases in front of a mirror looking deep into your eyes, as words uttered with a lot of desire, concentration, and energy are so powerful and become reality.

Time is so powerful and is the ultimate healer. When the right time comes, even you can’t stop yourself from healing. To all those applying this philosophy to achieve their dreams, nothing is more powerful than gratitude. It turns the tables in a way you’ve never imagined.

Lots of love to all going through painful breakups and magic dust to all reading my story. Thank you so much to this site for publishing my story! I hope this helps.