In 2020, I was still involved in a toxic relationship with my ex-boyfriend. I watched The Secret for the first time and it changed my perspective on things. That relationship was going nowhere except for a continually vicious cycle. On New Year’s Eve going into 2021, I vowed I would never speak to him again in order to create a vibrational space for the right man to come into my life. I cut off my ex going into 2021 by changing my phone number, changing my email, and blocking him on social media.
I started focusing on the manifestation of my dream relationship. I made lists describing my dream man writing down that I wanted him to be tall, with a beard, and with blue eyes. I wanted him to be a gentleman who buys me flowers and opens all my doors. I wanted him to be affectionate and touchy since physical touch is my primary love language. I continued writing down descriptions and details about my dream man. I would sleep with the lists near my bed. I would meditate on the imagery of my ideal relationship. I purchased energy crystals that are meant to attract true love such as Rose Quartz. I would fall asleep to guided hypnosis videos about attracting soulmates. No matter how lonely I felt during the process, I refrained from getting in contact with my ex.
Exactly five months later, I received a message on social media from a very good looking man who saw my pictures and wanted to ask me on a date. I started seriously focusing on manifesting my soulmate on January 1, 2021, and my soulmate reached out to me on June 1, 2021. We arranged a date and instantly connected after meeting each other face to face. After six weeks of more dates and time together, he asked me to be his girlfriend.
After a year and a half of dating, he proposed to me at the end of 2022! We are now engaged and planning our wedding for early next year. This man is tall, he is 6’3”. He has a beard and beautiful pale blue eyes. He buys me flowers consistently, he opens every door for me, and he shows me love by being affectionate every single day. I never doubt his love for me. I prayed for a love like this. I cried myself to sleep, begging God for a love like this. My prayers were answered. My desire was manifested into a reality. The love I receive now is completely gentle and healthy. My fiancé is calm, levelheaded, nonjudgmental, honest, patient, and easy to communicate with. I believe I attracted him into my life because I stopped allowing my ex to have access to me and my energy. I energetically let go of the toxic bond with my ex and cleared a space in my life for the right man to come. I also dedicated maybe two or three journals to simply writing about my future love life in the present tense as I was still waiting to meet my soulmate. I know the law of attraction worked for me to meet my fiancé. Now I’m working on healing my body from a recent diagnosis of a thyroid issue and manifesting financial freedom and success through some of my entrepreneurial avenues as a writer.
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