Marriage Regrets: My Experience with a Trojan Horse Wife in Naija

A man from Nigeria, Enojie, shares on Facebook the end of his relationship with his wife, Priceless Ora, after six years, expressing deep regret for ever marrying her. The couple, parents to four children, held their traditional wedding in Edo State on May 26, 2024.

 

On Tuesday, July 9, 2024, Enojie revealed that during disputes, his wife would publicly belittle him on social media. He accused her of denigrating him, comparing him to other men, and contemplating infidelity despite his payments for her bride price.

 

He also announced the cancellation of their church wedding scheduled for October 6, 2024, stating he could no longer tolerate living with such a disrespectful woman.

 

‘’I regret of doing this. I curse the day I agree to do this,” he wrote.

     

I thought she will change landed me to this shame & disgrace

     

I married an enemy in disguise of a wife

     

Reasons why I cancelled & regret this

     

No 1. I married a woman who compare me with other men

     

No 2. This is not the first time we will have issues and she we come on live stream either by Facebook or Tiktok

     

No 3. A married woman said she wan go knack on top bride price

     

Am not perfect either, but going to social media to talk down on me for 5 hours on tiktok is and unimaginable thing I can’t let go

     

So many words have been said in the open

     

I can’t continue to live with a lousy woman in the name of a wife

     

My sincere apologies to all our fans and supporters that saw the recent tragedy and feel disappointed

     

My supportive lovers pls forgive us

     

And to all the social media presenters, bloggers, motivational speakers both who gave their opinions on this issue negatively or positively, I say thank you

     

I write this note to inform u all that our marriage in Oct 6.2024 can’t hold anymore bcz it is now shown & seen that we are both not compatible to lead a home

But I am going for co-parenting to at least make my children proud for they are all we ve got on this journey of 6 years.

     

And on this note she cease to be my wife & no one should pls address her as one henceforth

     

Man propose God dispose.”